Domestic violence refers to a pattern of violent and coercive behavior exercised by on adult in an intimate relationship over another. It may consist of repeated severe beatings or more subtle forms of abuse, including threats and control. Statistics reflect that 95% of domestic violence victims are women although men may also be victims. In the U.S., domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women ages 15-44. Domestic abuse does not discriminate. Victims of domestic abuse come from all walks of life: all ages, races and income levels. Often men who have experienced violence say, “I’ve only had one episode and it scared me”. Others have seen violence as the only possible pattern for their lives. Once violence has occurred, it almost always occurs again and becomes worse each time.
There are four basic types of domestic violence: Physical assault; sexual assault; psychological assault and attacks against property and pets.
Domestic abuse or violence is never justified, necessary, “no problem at all,” or impossible to stop. Domestic abuse always causes less trust and security in a love relationship, physical and emotional pain, and fear. Domestic abuse can lead to: emotional and behavioral problems in children who witness abuse or are abused, divorce, serious physical injury, murder, suicide and imprisonment.
For services for victims of abuse look under “Abuse” or “Community Services” in the front of your phone book. Or Call:
Wisconsin Coalition Against Domestic Violence
608-255-0539
National Domestic Violence Hotline
800-799-SAFE (7233)
For more information about women’s health issues and resources in Wisconsin, Visit Women’s Health Foundation website (www.wwhr.org) or call the Wisconsin Women’s Health Hotline at 1-800-218-8108.